Not all handcuffs are created equally. Handcuffs are traditionally designed to restrain and immobilize but when used in sexual situations, safety and security of the wearer comes first!

When buying handcuffs make sure the handcuffs are easy to get out of in case of emergency. Look for a good quality material. Be cautious of materials that may break, chip, crack, or rust. Make sure the handcuffs have a double lock or safety catch so they will not get too tight around the wrist accidently and thus cutting off circulation or causing unwanted injuries. Trips to the emergency room are not sexy! Make sure you have a spare key, or even better spare keys! Plastic handcuffs are fine, so long as they have the other features (double lock, spare keys, etc) and can even include a fuzzy material to increase comfort for the wearer.

Before using your new handcuffs let your partner try on the cuffs to make sure they fit comfortably before initiating any sexual scenario and put them away for a later date. At this point you should discuss the situation and get consent. I know, the element of surprise makes it more fun but never, I repeat, NEVER use handcuffs without first discussing such a scenario with your partner. Make sure both of you are comfortable with the situation and come up with a safe word. A safe word is a word you wouldn't otherwise say in the bedroom or during a sexual situation that when said immediately ends the scene and allows time for checking in before continuing or stopping altogether.

Have fun and play safe